October Magic, Spirit Work & the Slow Descent Towards Samhain
October has arrived properly now hasn’t it?! Not just technically, but energetically.
The leaves are beginning to come down with a little more enthusiasm, mornings feel cooler, the light has changed, and even when the sun is out there’s something softer about it now, something that feels less like summer and more like the last warm hand on your shoulder before the darker months begin.
And I love this part of the year, there’s something about October that feels almost instinctively magical, the world begins to quieten, the trees start releasing, the evenings draw in, the veil feels thinner and suddenly candles, incense, old books, darker evenings and quiet ritual all seem to make perfect sense again.
Last night at Weekend Witchery we explored spirit communication, and it felt like such a beautiful way to begin this month.
There was curiosity, reverence, laughter, a little nervousness, a lot of openness, and that particular feeling that comes when a group of people sit together with intention and allow themselves to listen a little more deeply, as we move closer to Samhain, this is exactly the kind of work that naturally begins to call a little louder.
Not necessarily dramatic spirit contact, séances around the dining table or asking every creak in the house to identify itself!
But remembrance, listening, honouring and becoming more aware of the unseen relationships we already carry.
Ancestors. Guides. Beloved dead. Deities. Helpful spirits… The wisdom of those who came before us.
October invites us to pay attention.
Sunday & Monday
Third Quarter Moon in Cancer Moving into Leo
We begin the week under the third quarter moon, moving from Cancer into Leo.
Cancer brings emotion, ancestry, family, memory and home, while the third quarter moon encourages release and reflection.
This feels beautifully suited to early October.
It asks us to look at what we’re carrying emotionally, what belongs to us, what has been inherited, and what we might finally be ready to put down.
Not everything passed down through a family line needs to be carried forward, some things can be honoured and ended, some patterns can stop with us, some stories can be understood without being repeated.
And then as the moon moves into Leo, the energy shifts slightly, reminding us that there is courage in being fully ourselves, especially after we have released what was never really ours.
Cancer to Leo Ritual: What Ends With Me?
Light a candle and sit somewhere quiet.
Write:
What have I inherited that I no longer wish to carry?
This might be fear, guilt, people-pleasing, silence, over-responsibility, shame, scarcity, perfectionism or anything else that feels older than you.
Then write:
What do I choose instead?
Courage.. Rest.. Boundaries.. Joy.. Freedom.. Expression.. Confidence..
Place your hand over your heart and say:
“I honour where I come from, but I choose what continues through me.”
You don’t have to reject your past to choose differently.
Sometimes healing is simply deciding that the pattern stops here.
Tuesday & Wednesday
Waning Moon in Leo
Leo under a waning moon gives us a slightly different kind of confidence.
This isn’t necessarily about being louder, it can be about becoming less apologetic, less performative or less worried about how you are perceived.
A lovely question for this part of the week is:
Where am I still asking permission to be myself?
And then perhaps:
What would change if I stopped?
Leo Ritual: Reclaiming Your Voice
Stand in front of a mirror.
Take a breath.
Look at yourself properly.
Not critically, just notice yourself.
Then say:
“I do not need to shrink to be loved. I do not need to hide to be safe. I honour my voice, my truth and my fire.”
It may feel awkward. Do it anyway.
Half of magic is intention.
The other half is apparently feeling slightly ridiculous in your own bathroom.
Thursday & Friday
Waning Moon in Virgo
By Thursday, the moon moves into Virgo, bringing practical magic back into the picture.
Virgo is wonderful for cleansing, sorting, preparation, health, routines and creating order before the next cycle begins.
And honestly, if you’ve been waiting for a cosmic sign to clear your altar, wash the candle holders and finally remove the dead leaf that has been sitting there since July…
Here it is.
This is a lovely time to refresh your sacred space in preparation for Samhain, dust, clear, cleanse, remove anything that no longer feels relevant.
Wash altar cloths, replace old water, refresh offerings and add seasonal elements.
You don’t need a huge altar, a shelf, tray, windowsill or small table is enough.
Virgo Ritual: Preparing Your Samhain Altar
Begin with three simple things:
Something for the Earth
A leaf, acorn, conker, apple, stone or dried herb.
Something for Spirit
A candle, incense, bell or small bowl of water.
Something for Remembrance
A photograph, inherited object, written name or keepsake.
That’s enough to begin, your altar can grow slowly through October.
Let it become part of the season rather than something you rush to perfect in one evening.
Friday into Saturday – Dark Moon Energy
As we approach the New Moon, we move into the darkest point of the lunar cycle.
The dark moon is one of my favourite times for quiet work.
Not manifestation, calling in or new beginnings…
Just stillness, listening, releasing, resting…
It is a beautiful time for shadow work too, because shadow work often begins when we stop distracting ourselves long enough to notice what keeps repeating beneath the surface.
What Is Shadow Work?
Shadow work is not about becoming darker, digging endlessly into trauma or finding something wrong with yourself.
It is about meeting the parts of ourselves we have pushed away.
The anger we were told was unacceptable.
The confidence we learned to hide.
The grief we never really gave space to.
The jealousy that points towards an unmet desire.
The part of us that wants to say no.
The part that wants more.
The part that feels ashamed.
The part that still needs tenderness.
Our shadow is not necessarily bad, often, it is simply unaccepted, when we begin to meet those hidden parts with curiosity rather than judgement, they stop having to shout quite so loudly.
Two Shadow Work Prompts
Try one of these this week:
“What part of myself do I judge most harshly, and what might that part actually need?”
Or:
“What do I criticise in other people that I find difficult to acknowledge in myself?”
You do not need to solve the answer, just notice it.
Shadow work is not a race to become healed, it is a relationship with yourself and like any relationship, it needs honesty, patience and compassion.
Simple Protection Before Spirit Work
As we move closer to Samhain, many people feel more drawn towards divination, ancestors, guides and spirit work.
Before doing any of this, I always like to create a clear boundary.
Protection does not need to come from fear, it can simply be about intention, about deciding what you are available for and what you are not.
A Simple Protection Ritual
Light a candle.
Hold a grounding crystal if you use them, perhaps black tourmaline, obsidian, smoky quartz or simply a stone you have collected outside.
Take three breaths and say:
“Only that which comes with love, wisdom and good intention is welcome here. All else must remain outside this space. I am grounded, protected and sovereign within my own energy.”
Imagine a circle of light around you.
Then begin your practice.
When you finish, thank whoever or whatever you have been working with, close the session clearly and say:
“This space is now closed. I return fully to myself and to the present moment.”
Then do something ordinary like drink water, eat something, wash your hands, pet the dog and put the kettle on.
Spiritual work is wonderful, so is remembering you have a physical body and probably need a snack.
A Gentle Ritual for Connecting With Your Guides
If you are curious about guide work, start simply.
You do not need to demand names, appearances or dramatic signs.
Sit quietly with a candle and say:
“I welcome the guidance that is right for me, in a way I can understand and safely receive.”
Then ask one simple question.
Something like:
“What would you have me pay attention to this week?”
Sit quietly and notice what comes.
A word, image, feeling, memory, or nothing, all of those are valid.
Then journal for a few minutes.
The aim is not to prove anything, it is to become more receptive to your own intuition and spiritual practice.
Honouring the Ancestors
Ancestor work can be incredibly simple too.
You might place a photograph on your altar, light a candle, cook something they loved, play their favourite music, tell their stories, and say their names.
You might leave a small glass of water beside their photograph and refresh it regularly.
Or simply sit and say:
“To those who walked before me, known and unknown, remembered and forgotten, I honour the lives that made mine possible.”
Ancestor work does not require us to pretend every ancestor was wonderful.
Some family histories are complicated, some are painful. You are allowed to honour your line without honouring harm.
You are allowed to work with loving ancestors, well ancestors, healed ancestors, or simply those whose wisdom you wish to welcome.
Spiritual practice should never require you to abandon your boundaries.
Take October Outside
As much as I love candles, altars and indoor witchiness, October is far too beautiful to spend entirely indoors.
So sometime this week, go for a little seasonal walk.
No headphones if you can manage it, let yourself actually notice where you are.
Look at which trees are turning first, notice which leaves are already falling.
See whether you can find conkers, acorns, feathers, seed heads or fallen bark.
Notice what still has flowers and what has already gone to seed.
Look at the colour of the sky, listen to the birds.
Pay attention to what nature is doing rather than what the calendar says she should be doing.
Take only what has already fallen and what it is appropriate to collect.
And perhaps bring one small thing home for your altar.
A conker, acorn or a beautiful leaf, something ordinary that becomes sacred simply because you noticed it.
Into the Shadows
Friday 16th October, 7:30pm
Later this month we have Into the Shadows, our shadow-work sound bath.
This evening is about reclaiming the hidden self, the pieces of us that were made quieter, the emotions we learned to suppress, the needs we learned to ignore, the confidence we tucked away because it made someone uncomfortable.
We’ll move gently through reflection and guided shadow work before entering a deeply immersive sound journey, creating space to meet ourselves beneath the layers we have accumulated.
This isn’t about fixing yourself, iit is about becoming more whole.
If you’ve never explored shadow work before, this will be a gentle way to begin. Into the Shadows
Samhain Ritual Sound Bath
Thursday 29th October, 7:30pm
Our Samhain Ritual Sound Bath will be a very different kind of evening.
This one is centred around remembrance.
You are welcome to bring photographs or small keepsakes belonging to loved ones who have died and keep them close byfor the evening.
There will be an ancestor tree where you can add messages, names and memories, as well as the opportunity to light a tea light in remembrance.
We’ll move through ritual, reflection, meditation and sound, creating a gentle space to honour those we love and acknowledge that remembrance itself can be a form of devotion.
You can simply come to remember.
Sometimes love continuing beyond a lifetime is magic enough. Samhain Ritual Sound Bath
Sacred Reflections
Friday 30th October, 7–10pm
Then on Friday 30th October we have Sacred Reflections: A Ritual Journey into the Art of Scrying.
This will be a longer evening devoted to one of the oldest forms of divination, exploring ways of working with reflective surfaces, flame, water and intuitive sight.
Scrying is not necessarily about seeing a perfectly formed vision appear dramatically in front of you.
Sometimes it is shapes, colours, feelings, symbols, memories, fragments.
The art is often less about forcing yourself to “see” and more about learning how to soften your focus and listen differently.
We’ll explore that in much more depth on the night, and yes, there will be plenty of darkness, candlelight and delicious Samhain energy. Sacred Reflections: A Ritual Journey into the Art of Scrying
A Thought for the Week
October does not need to be rushed, Samhain is still several weeks away.
We do not have to dive immediately into the deepest ritual work simply because the calendar has turned.
Let the season build, let your altar grow slowly and your curiosity deepen.
Take walks, collect leaves, light candles, write down dreams, learn your boundaries, begin thinking about your ancestors and notice what parts of yourself are becoming louder as the year grows quieter.
The descent into the dark half of the year is not something to fear.
Darkness is where seeds wait, where bodies rest, where dreams form.
Where we stop being distracted by everything outside ourselves and begin listening to what is within, and that is October’s first invitation.
Weekly Intention
“I move gently into the darker season, protected in my own energy, open to wisdom, rooted in the present and willing to listen to what is ready to be heard.”
Have a beautiful October week.
Collect something lovely.
Light a candle.
Say hello to your ancestors if it feels right.
And perhaps leave a little space for magic.
Until next week,
With love,
Marie xx
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