Today marks the Winter Solstice, the longest night of the year and the quiet turning point where the light begins its slow return. It’s a moment that asks us to pause, to breathe, and to honour the dark as something sacred rather than something to rush through.
This year, the Solstice arrives just after a New Moon, which reached its peak last night. While the moment itself has passed, the energy lingers. We are still in that fertile, quiet space of beginning before action, of intention before effort.
As the world outside becomes louder with celebration and expectation, the earth is doing the opposite. She is resting. Conserving energy. Recovering. And she invites us to do the same.
The Winter Solstice has been honoured for thousands of years as a moment of survival, reflection, and hope. Long before modern calendars, this was the point where people paused to acknowledge what they had endured and trusted that the light would return, slowly, steadily, without being forced.
This is not a celebration of productivity or brightness. It is a celebration of endurance. Of what you have carried through the darker months. Of what you have learned by slowing down, letting go, and sitting with uncertainty.
If this year has been heavy, tender, or quietly exhausting, the Solstice offers a gentle reminder:
you made it here. That matters.
There is no right way to celebrate the Solstice. Choose what feels supportive, or simply let the day pass softly.
Candle of Returning Light – light a single candle and sit quietly. Reflect on one thing that has supported you through the darker months. Let the flame represent the gradual return of light, not rushed, not forced.
Release to the Long Night – Write down one belief, expectation, or pattern you are ready to leave behind. Tear the paper or place it beneath your candle, acknowledging that it no longer needs to come with you into the lighter months.
Rest as Ritual – Go to bed early. Cancel something non essential. Allow rest itself to be your offering. This is deeply aligned with the season.
Although the New Moon peaked last night, we are still very much in its influence today. This makes it a beautiful time to anchor intentions gently, without pressure to act on them yet.
This New Moon in Capricorn invites grounded, realistic intentions. Not big resolutions, but steady foundations.
Ask yourself:
Write one simple sentence. Let it rest. You don’t need to rush it into action.
Focus on what stabilises you. Fewer commitments, more structure that supports rest.
Create space. Step back from emotional labour. You are not required to hold everything.
Soften. Dream. Rest. Let emotions move through gently rather than being analysed or fixed.
As we move closer to Christmas, it’s important to remember that care is not selfish and boundaries are not unkind.
You are allowed to:
Like the earth in winter, you are not meant to be in full output right now.
Merry Yule, Happy Christmas & Solstice Blessings,
However you celebrate, may there be peace in your home and your heart.
Until next week,
With love
Marie xx
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